Nurturance by caregivers determine our sexuality more so than the nature of our genetics.
Thus sexuality is a hierarchy of unconscious choices, similar to the ones we make before we learn language.
Sexual orientation is the end result of these choices.
Indeed, the treatment of a child by their parents, their peers and society determines whether s/he will prefer to socialize with male or female but the choice of sexual orientation depends on who s/he feels comfortable with.
Although this may feel like s/he has little choice, that is because this choice is foremost an unconscious choice.
If one feels as though one has no choice in the matter, then that is because sexual orientation occurs without reasoning since sexual desire is based on feelings.
Any reasoning is made ex profacto.
For love grows after the fact of making it,
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