Parents: You'd be shocked if you only knew what your girls were doing on-line.
It's not a phase they are doing through. Some of your girls are flashing guys on Kik. They are also allowed to tease the boys on Younow while banning guys for objecting to it.
I could go on, but it was exposed by Amanda Todd. And the real reason why she hung herself was because her mother cut her off from unconditional love.
Of course, if you can't handle the truth, then go ahead and believe the propaganda that it was all because of some non-existent on-line stalker.
Why do police consistent wait until a crime happens before they do anything about it? This reactive form of policing is vexing.
They told Amanda Todd's mother to keep Amanda off the Internet because of her exhibitionist response to being deprived by her mother of the loving and caring attention that would have reduced her on-line activity.
Now we have the media circus where the lie that Amanda was stalked on-line until she was bullied by her classmates, all of whom resorted to bullying to get her to tow the line.
That line is best summed up as "stop showing off your body to the Internet".
However, the mainstream media sticks to the stalker propaganda instead of telling the truth and thus are complicit in the propaganda.
This is because society cannot handle the truth: your girls have the potential to become flashers on-line if you deprive them of love and nurturing.
So, parents, do you know what your girls are doing on-line?
Showing posts with label child neglect. Show all posts
Showing posts with label child neglect. Show all posts
20130524
Love with an Iron Fist
When shit goes bad, tell your parents.
It's worth the scolding, which is a sign of LOVE. Only a parent who truly loves and cares for his or her child will scold them. Those parents who say not are guilty of child neglect.
All neglect does is show to a child that they are free to do ANYTHING, even kill.
So if you see a peer doing anything they want, then gently scold them. Even if they beat you up, you have done the right thing.
However, even a person who shows his peers his or her loving nature does not stand for violent confrontation when they act out.
Love still must be tempered by nn iron fist.
It's worth the scolding, which is a sign of LOVE. Only a parent who truly loves and cares for his or her child will scold them. Those parents who say not are guilty of child neglect.
All neglect does is show to a child that they are free to do ANYTHING, even kill.
So if you see a peer doing anything they want, then gently scold them. Even if they beat you up, you have done the right thing.
However, even a person who shows his peers his or her loving nature does not stand for violent confrontation when they act out.
Love still must be tempered by nn iron fist.
20130112
Overmedication in Psychwards: Its Cure
A hospital psychward demands order.
That's why they're medicated.
Most psychiatric professionals are not in the business of administering therapy in such a setting because working in such a setting only makes them chump change.
Besides most of them know that psychoanalysis usually does not "cure" a patient but merely ensures that he'll be back for more of the same.
Medicating patients in a psychward is more efficient use of resources, and often more humane than the mental hospitals of the past.
Sadly though, the reason why most patients are in a psychward is because nobody actually listens to them and takes care of their needs at home.
Sometimes, a psychward actually has caring professionals to give the minimum of care.
That is because it is difficult to inculcate a caring and compassionate attitude in the profession.
You either have it or you burn out.
For the whole purpose of medication is to avoid burn out, because even a caring professional will be overwhelmed by the horror stories some of the mentally ill have to tell.
If it weren't for the fact that most parents haven't gotten their shit together and take out their unresolved issues on their children, the world would have less rates of mental illness than they currently!
20 percent of people == 1.3 billion worldwide who have a mental illness, which in itself is evidence of child abuse and neglect in their immediate families.
When we learn how to effectively address the risks which lead to abuse and neglect, that'll be when the rates go down.
However, it is the stress of a fast-paced society that breeds mental illness due to ineffective coping skills.
That may be because public education is a fast-paced stream of academics lacking even the basics of teaching kids how to handle stress.
However, I'll bet you teaching them the basics of meditation can and will help to reduce transforming benign schizotypies into mental illness.
And I'll be you too that in nations where the people are obligated to spend five years of Buddhist training (become monks and nuns) before being allowed to become householders probably have lower rates of mental illness than secular nations that manufacture consumers who are first and foremost obligated to become productive members of a fast-paced society, often without giving them a wide range of coping skills to deal with stress.
That's why they're medicated.
Most psychiatric professionals are not in the business of administering therapy in such a setting because working in such a setting only makes them chump change.
Besides most of them know that psychoanalysis usually does not "cure" a patient but merely ensures that he'll be back for more of the same.
Medicating patients in a psychward is more efficient use of resources, and often more humane than the mental hospitals of the past.
Sadly though, the reason why most patients are in a psychward is because nobody actually listens to them and takes care of their needs at home.
Sometimes, a psychward actually has caring professionals to give the minimum of care.
That is because it is difficult to inculcate a caring and compassionate attitude in the profession.
You either have it or you burn out.
For the whole purpose of medication is to avoid burn out, because even a caring professional will be overwhelmed by the horror stories some of the mentally ill have to tell.
If it weren't for the fact that most parents haven't gotten their shit together and take out their unresolved issues on their children, the world would have less rates of mental illness than they currently!
20 percent of people == 1.3 billion worldwide who have a mental illness, which in itself is evidence of child abuse and neglect in their immediate families.
When we learn how to effectively address the risks which lead to abuse and neglect, that'll be when the rates go down.
However, it is the stress of a fast-paced society that breeds mental illness due to ineffective coping skills.
That may be because public education is a fast-paced stream of academics lacking even the basics of teaching kids how to handle stress.
However, I'll bet you teaching them the basics of meditation can and will help to reduce transforming benign schizotypies into mental illness.
And I'll be you too that in nations where the people are obligated to spend five years of Buddhist training (become monks and nuns) before being allowed to become householders probably have lower rates of mental illness than secular nations that manufacture consumers who are first and foremost obligated to become productive members of a fast-paced society, often without giving them a wide range of coping skills to deal with stress.
20130102
Children Ought to be Seen and Heard
In my opinion, to punish a child for talking back to a parent is unjustifiable, as by talking back, a child demonstrates two things: that s/he is an individual covered by the human rights proclamation in defense of free speech and that s/he is communicating.
When a parent rewards a child for being silent in the face of verbal abuse, that is mental cruelty and in essence, a form of child neglect, as the parent is neglecting the child's right to communicate freely.
This is the anatomy of rebellion in that child's teens.
Yet sadly, because a minor is in the custody of their caregivers, the rights of children are ignored, to their detriment.
Is it any wonder the things teenagers are doing today away from parents outrageous (gangs, murder, bullying)?
I say the seeds of rebellion and the child straying into the realm of decadent hedonism is tied to how the parent treats that child.
When you give them the opportunity to choice anything but hanging out with the wrong crowd, parents are not depriving children of having a life.
Rather, you are validating their right to be heard and seen.
If I had parents like that, then I'd want to share that story with the world.
Children ought to be seen and heard by their parents, not on the TV being busted for "mischief".
When a parent rewards a child for being silent in the face of verbal abuse, that is mental cruelty and in essence, a form of child neglect, as the parent is neglecting the child's right to communicate freely.
This is the anatomy of rebellion in that child's teens.
Yet sadly, because a minor is in the custody of their caregivers, the rights of children are ignored, to their detriment.
Is it any wonder the things teenagers are doing today away from parents outrageous (gangs, murder, bullying)?
I say the seeds of rebellion and the child straying into the realm of decadent hedonism is tied to how the parent treats that child.
When you give them the opportunity to choice anything but hanging out with the wrong crowd, parents are not depriving children of having a life.
Rather, you are validating their right to be heard and seen.
If I had parents like that, then I'd want to share that story with the world.
Children ought to be seen and heard by their parents, not on the TV being busted for "mischief".
20121222
My Hope for the Future
Overall, reduction of oppression of women of color.This may be done by egalitarian means.
Elimination of child neglect and child abuse.
Elimination of the glass ceiling for women, or better, women executives competing on the same level of men, due to men's enlightened attitude, throwing off patriarchy's disempowerment of both men and women.
Discovering evidence to counter the effect of religion as disempowering women by making Buddhist practice less of a religion and more of a lifestyle change. For Buddhism has shown that when practiced outside of patriarchies in an egalitarian society, demonstrates that Buddhist women benefit as much as men do.
As well, I believe that less oppression and sexism actually occurs in society than it did 100 years ago.
However, neither men nor women should be the privileged sex, as both feminism and patriarchism promise.
Rather, an egalitarian society without glass ceilings, oppression of women and of men, and safety of boys and girls from harm is the ideal.
As well, it's time to change myself for the better to ensure these hopes are put into action first through speech and followed through with action.
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Elimination of child neglect and child abuse.
Elimination of the glass ceiling for women, or better, women executives competing on the same level of men, due to men's enlightened attitude, throwing off patriarchy's disempowerment of both men and women.
Discovering evidence to counter the effect of religion as disempowering women by making Buddhist practice less of a religion and more of a lifestyle change. For Buddhism has shown that when practiced outside of patriarchies in an egalitarian society, demonstrates that Buddhist women benefit as much as men do.
As well, I believe that less oppression and sexism actually occurs in society than it did 100 years ago.
However, neither men nor women should be the privileged sex, as both feminism and patriarchism promise.
Rather, an egalitarian society without glass ceilings, oppression of women and of men, and safety of boys and girls from harm is the ideal.
As well, it's time to change myself for the better to ensure these hopes are put into action first through speech and followed through with action.
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